The pursuit phase
She says: I dont want to ruin our friendship.
What she means: I am not attracted to you, but I do like you as a friend.
Why she does this: She probably does want to remain friends; but doesnt want to hurt your feelings by admitting that she doesnt feel the same attraction for you.
What you should do: Dont take it personally: She just doesnt feel the same chemistry as you do.
She Says: Im just so busy with work right now.
What she means: I am not interested in fitting you into my schedule.
Why she does this: She wants to let you down easy.
What you should do: When a woman likes a man, she will always find time for him- no matter what her schedule is like. So dont kid yourself into thinking that the situation might change.
She says: Do you really want to go to that restaurant, movie, and dinner party?
What she means: I really dont want to go there.
Why she does this: She doesnt want to go. But she doesnt want to appear stubborn either.
What you should do: If you have your heart set on going to that particular destination, stick to your guns. Otherwise, you might want to change plans. Remember, if you keep her happy, shell be motivated to keep you happy.
She says:Where is this relationship going?
What she means: I would like us to graduate to a more serious, exclusive relationship.
Why she does this: She wants you to be the one to suggest exclusivity.
What you should do: This depends on whether or not you actually want exclusivity. If not, let her know that you care about her, but are not interested in being exclusive right now.
She says: I feel so close to you right now. You know me so well.
What she means: I am starting to feel the 1-word, but I dont want to be the first to say it.
Why she does this: Its a scary thing to be the first to say I love you. Its much easier for her to hint and hope that youll take the plunge first.
What you should do: Do not under any circumstances say the 1-word if you dont mean it. If you do feel it, then go ahead; otherwise, dont say anything, In the long run, youll be happy not to get entangled in such a lie.
The break up phase
She says: Im just not ready to make a commitment
What she means: I am not ready to commit to you, and may never be.
Why she does this: She used this tactic to soften the blow; nine times out of 10, this means that she doesnt see a future with you.
What you should do: Dont stick around until shes ready to make a commitment. Chances are, when shes finally ready, it wont be with you.
She says: I think we should stay friends.
What she means: I am trying to cut you out of my life gradually.
Why she does this: She thinks it would be easier to stop seeing you gradually. She may even want to keep you around as backup.
What you should do: Stay friends if you kike. If she wants to get back together down the line, ask yourself if shes only doing it because she hasnt found anyone else. Unlike a man, a woman often uses hints and insinuations to steer you in her direction. Her way isnt necessarily better or worse that yours, its just different. However, just follow the above and you will soon be able to interpret the feminine language to your advantage. Even Diana,the online Dating Guide/Expert from wheresinglesmeet.com express the same view.
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